Covid-19 and Beauty Supplies

Covid-19 and Beauty Supplies

Before you get your knickers in a twist (I've always loved that expression and waited this long to put it in my blog) please read this entire post.  Then you can argue the point and we'll enjoy a lively back and forth.

Essential supplies

During this pandemic, essential businesses remain open: supermarkets, pharmacies, restaurants for takeout, etc. For several reasons, I think beauty supply stores should be included on the list.

There're the practical reasons: it is where I bought the generous supply of gloves - latex and otherwise - that I have because I color my own hair.  In early March, I returned to my local beauty supply store and bought another box for myself and one for my parents. Now my Mom and Dad, in the suburbs and in their 80's, can protect their hands when they go to the grocery store.

Then there's the just as important mental side.  Most women feel better when they look good.  With hairdressers and nail salons closed indefinitely, we've got to take care of ourselves, and we cannot do it without products!

My 22-year-old daughter is coming over tomorrow because she needs some highlights in her beautiful curly hair.  This is a wonderful bonding exercise we engage in a few times per year.  Hair color is toxic.  One must wear gloves - and now a mask - to color hair.  With appropriate precautions,  there is zero chance that we will be exposed to each other's droplets.

 If men can buy items for their cars...

Finally, there is the feminist perspective, and I know this is the part where I'm likely to ruffle some feathers.

Stores that traditionally and still predominantly cater to men - gas stations, auto supply stores, liquor stores - are deemed essential and are open.  Why should Autozone be doing business when Dolly's Hair Essentials cannot?  In New York State, the sale of alcoholic beverages is considered essential. Why should alcoholics be permitted to self-medicate when all I want to do is make myself pretty?

Growing up, I always thought I would let my hair go gray.  I thought with good hair and good skin, a mature woman could look sexy.  Then I worked in television where gray hair on women is against the law.  I got used to coloring my hair and now I cannot stop.

Beauty is power and as everyone knows it takes a bit of effort and a lot of L'Oreal to put your best face forward. Zoom meetings have become an important part of working from home, but I wouldn't dream of doing one without the same effort I employed before leaving the house in the pre-COVID days.  Yesterday, I colored my hair and though I cursed the process and avoided it for days, today I feel like I can conquer the world.

Call me shallow.  I can take it.  My hair looks great! 

Who knows how long this misery is going to continue?  People don't congregate in a beauty supply store the way they do in a barbershop.  We go in, pick up products and leave.  I want to keep these stores in business.  I want to get personal advice on what strength developer would work best with the dye for my hair...and I want to look gorgeous.

Don't you want me to?

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Keep calm and carry on...Lori Bores

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Almost Free New York: Easter???: COVID-19 The New Normal Photo by  Kelly Sikkema  on  Unsplash My Roman Catholic Church on the Upper East Side of Manhattan - n...

Easter???

COVID-19 The New Normal

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

My Roman Catholic Church on the Upper East Side of Manhattan - not exactly a bastion of lefty political leanings - has canceled all Easter Masses. Yet our narcissistic President says he is imagining crowded churches on April 12 - a mere 2 and a half weeks away.

The only thing I may have in common with Trump is that I am not a scientist.  Catholic school in the 1960's was skeptical of science and I am embarrassed to admit I've never taken a biology class.  My public high school required just 1 year of science to graduate.  Groovy Earth Science was my ticket!

This is 2020, and over the years I have grown to respect and listen to scientists for a simple reason: they know much more than I do. Herein lies the problem.  Trump rejects the idea that anyone knows more than our perfect, tremendous, fantastic President.  

I stare in rapt revulsion as Trump, surrounded by his loyalists, holds daily briefings and shares his dangerous fantasies with the American people. His story changes with alarming rapidity.  This isn't leadership.  It's the boy who cried wolf - in reverse.  Trump says come gather at church.  The sheep dutifully obey, and the COVID-19 virus eats them.

Apologies for the mixed metaphors, but the point is this: Trump is a failed businessman and an accomplished liar. He's not worried about the virus because it will cull the herd.  Who cares if we lose thousands of old people?  They're too expensive and they don't work. Who needs the infirmed and disabled?  They also don't work - not good for my bottom line.  

If you can stand it, listen to this compilation of Trump's recent contradictions.

Trump

Meanwhile, here is what I am doing to contribute during our social isolation:

1) I live on the third floor of an apartment building with an elevator.  I carry a small spray bottle of isopropyl alcohol and I spray the buttons and knobs whenever I take my dog for a walk - at least 3 times per day. If you don't have rubbing alcohol, any disinfectant spray like Lysol, Clorox, fantastic, etc. will work. I posted a sign in English and Spanish in the elevator explaining this and inviting others to do the same.  This has been very well received by my neighbors!

2) If your budget allows, order take-out from your favorite locally-owned restaurant once-a-week or more.  I had a delicious burger and sweet potato fries for lunch today from Hilltop Park Ale House, which leads me to...

3) Give blood. Supplies are low and must be replenished regularly.  I usually don't have enough iron in my blood, hence the burger mentioned above! I will eat meat this Friday.  I trust Jesus will understand 🙏

4) If you are lucky enough to have help, pay them to stay home.  Consider it long-overdue vacation time.

5) Again, if your budget allows, buy a gift card from a local small business.  They are strapped for cash and you can make a dent in your holiday shopping!

6) Most importantly, use technology to check in often with the people you love. I've got my parents in their 80's doing Facetime.

Thank you for letting me get this off my chest.  I feel much better now!  I keep coming back to God (or your higher power or the universe) doesn't give more than you can handle.  We are stronger than we think.

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I leave you with this much- needed classic from the Five Stairsteps...enjoy!

Ooh Child

Almost Free of Trump - Part 2

Women's March 2017

I was wrong back in October when I honestly believed that it was time to elect a female president of the United States.  Actually, the majority of voters agreed with me, but the Electoral College, which was designed precisely to prevent a dangerous egomaniac from assuming the office, failed to do its job.

So we are stuck with Donald Trump - at least until he does something so egregious that he is impeached.  Frankly, I don't know what that could be since we already know he doesn't pay taxes, sexually assaults women and hates immigrants.

Almost Free New York: 7 Ways to Save Big Bucks in 2017

Almost Free New York: 7 Ways to Save Big Bucks in 2017: 7 simple ways to save big bucks in 2017 Many of us have resigned ourselves to the fact that Donald Trump simply cannot keep his promise. ...

7 Ways to Save Big Bucks in 2017

7 simple ways to save big bucks in 2017

Many of us have resigned ourselves to the fact that Donald Trump simply cannot keep his promise. Unions are what made a thriving middle class in America and I suspect the death of unions is something Trump celebrates.  Automation is another inarguable fact that our President-elect does not acknowledge.  We grownups have learned that a problem must be named before it can be solved. We've strapped ourselves in because it's going to be a bumpy ride.  See you in D.C.

However, thanks to technology and good old-fashioned resourcefulness, there are a number of ways to save significant money in 2017 to partially offset the continuing war on the shrinking middle class.

1. Cut the cord 

How much money do you spend on your cable bill?  $150 per month? $250 per month??  When mine was approaching $300 per month (and I was moving) this former television producer  finally made the decision.  I was nervous, but more than 2 years later I can honestly say I do not miss anything and I have saved a serious bundle.

Mohu HD antenna

You will make an initial outlay of as little as $29.99 for a Roku to stream programs and $49 for an HD antenna (I bought mine from Mohu). Then I subscribed to Netflix (movies and original programming) for $7.99 per month, Hulu (almost everything one day after broadcast) for $7.99 per month, and later Sling (for sports and news)  at $19.99 per month. So after my initial investment of less than $100, my monthly "cable" bill is $33.97 per month! I "borrow" the codes for HBO and SHOWTIME from my cable paying parents (thanks, Mom & Dad).  HBO GO, which shows HBO content 1 day after it appears on HBO, allows up to 3 people to "share" codes. Ditto for SHOWTIME Anytime.  See my previous post Cut the Cable for more details.

2. ditch your old hard wired phone

Full diclosure:  I still pay $60 per month to TimeWarner, now Spectrum, for a hard-wired phone (and wireless service) because with my MS I (foolishly) believed I needed a FAX machine to deal with all the medical paperwork.  Over the holidays, my 26 year old son looked at me incredulously and said, "Mom, just scan it and email it." 

The phone only rings w/ robocalls and this week, I'll be happy to ditch it!  I'll let you know how Spectrum figures out a new way to overcharge, but by my calculations this should cut my bill in half.

3. change every light bulb to an LED

About a year ago, I made a bet w/ my Dad, who lives in a typical, suburban 3 bedroom house.  I replaced all of his light bulbs w/ LED or CFL bulbs for one month.  If his electrical bill wasn't reduced he wouldn't have to pay for the bulbs.

In 1 month, his electrical bill was reduced by almost $10!  Again, it requires an initial outlay to buy the bulbs, but they last forever and you will never have to replace another light bulb.  LED's/CFL's are costly, so I recommend waiting for a sale at target, taking careful inventory of what you need, and start saving big time.  For more tips, see my post Save Money, Save the Environment.

4. make every credit  card purchase with at least 2% cash back, preferably 5%

Many of you feel the way lots of credit cards change their rewards every quarter is a pain.  Fair enough, but if you don't want to do the little stickers every 3 months, just get yourself one of the 2% cashback cards. I have one from Citibank, and there are others, like Fidelity Rewards Visa Signature. Google 2% cash back credit cards. We're talking about potentially thousands of dollars a year! 

5.  bring your lunch to work once or twice a week

This is one of the good, old-fashioned resourcefulness tips.  When I was a child, my Mom used to make lunch for my Dad (who was in a union) to take to work every day. Going out to lunch is often social, and ordering in is certainly convenient, but this year why not try bringing a sandwich or yogurt and a piece of fruit for lunch a couple of times per week?  Pack it the night before while planning your outfit and maybe take a walk with your co-workers after lunch,  You will save money and be healthier!

6. call your insurance broker to find discounts on bundling, safe driving, taking teenagers off your policy, etc.

Insurance is especially competitive and especially if you have been w/ the same broker for years, it would be worth a friendly call to see if you can reduce your bill.  Raising your deductible is a classic money saving strategy, as is dropping collision coverage if your vehicle is more than 3 years old.  I get a discount from Travelers because I insure both my car and my apartment w/ this company.  Take a 1 day safe driving course for more discounts.

5% cashback

7. get an Amazon Store credit card

This is brand new and seriously recommended.  This year for the first time, I did all of my Christmas shopping online.  I realized that I bought almost everything online from Amazon.  With the Amazon Prime store card, you get 5% back on everything!  You can only use it on Amazon, but isn't that where most of us begin our shopping search?  OK, maybe Google first, but usually all online shopping roads lead to Amazon, so why not get 5% back on the bluetooth speaker you bought for your crazy uncle?

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