Monday, December 30, 2013

Follow ups...

Here it is: my favorite Thrift Store gift!  My boyfriend is the business manager for a private boys school run by the Benedictine Monks.  When I found this salt & pepper shaker set, I hit gold! 
Posted by PicasaAren't they cute?  Now I can't guarantee any specific finds, but it's safe to say there's a lot of  good stuff out there!

In other Lori - related news, the new Chancellor of the NYC school system was named today and Bill DeBlasio could not have made a better choice.  Carmen Farina was the Principal of my son's school for all but his last year.  When Alex was in third grade and I was lying in the hospital - scared & being diagnosed w/ Multiple Sclerosis - I was stunned to get a phone call from Mrs. Farina, who shared a personal story about her sister and offered me her support and encouragement.  Carmen is a tough, amazing, compassionate leader...the very best!
   A very peaceful and Happy New Year!  Keep calm & carry on...Lori Bores



Thursday, December 26, 2013

Thrift Gifts

Other than the items I made, this year for my son and my daughter and my Mom, I bought my favorite gift at a Thrift Shop.  The item is for my boyfriend and like a good boyfriend should, he reads my blog. So, I am not going to reveal here what the gift is (yet)!  But the point here is 1) you can find unique, wonderful gifts at a Thrift Store and 2) if the recipient doesn't appreciate Thrift Store ingenuity, perhaps it's time to re-evaluate the relationship!

Thursday, November 28, 2013

The 10 Blessings of MS

The  10 Blessings of MS

Recently, I felt like a rock star!

   
I was signing orange bandannas for some of the 5000 participants the day before the 2013 MS Bike Tour. On October 6, 2013,  riders had the rare and immeasurable pleasure of riding through the streets of NYC car free. As one of the MS Champions my job was to ask people, who didn't know anyone w/ this unpredictable disease, if they would ride for me.  Hence, the autographed bandannas.

During the 13+ years that I've had multiple sclerosis, life certainly has not been a bed of roses.  There have been - and still are, though far less often today - some very dark days.  I wouldn't be human if I didn't boo-hoo occasionally about this sucky disease.

But I am here to say that despite the scary name and despite the fact that I do not know how my MS will progress, a corner has been turned. Today, I realize that MS is a blessing in the disguise of a disease. here's why:

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Almost Free Tech

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I am reading a fabulous book called Citizenville by Gavin Newsom.  The subtitle is How to take the Town Square Digital and Reinvent Government.

After the recent abysmally low turnout primaries in New York City, it seems especially relevant to promote this book.

Now, I am the first person to admit that as one of the (over 30) "digital immigrants"  - as opposed to many of you (under 30) "digital natives" - I am far from the most technically savvy person you know! However, I may be the most thrifty, so allow me to share some of my tidbits...

Sunday, September 8, 2013

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Date Night!

This is going to be a tricky one.  To be honest, I don't know if I am writing this post for women or for men, but I hope both will get something out of it.

First, let me say that I think affection and romance make life worth living.  If you are one of the people who derive pleasure out of other people's misery, this post is not for you.  On the other hand, if you enjoy making your partner happy, lend me an ear.

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

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Labor Day

I'm stepping a bit out of my economy box, but this post is written by one of my favorite priests, who is also the official priest of the Colbert Report!  I hope my economy tips are not in conflict w/ Father Jim's advice.  I'm sharing this post in the spirit of the 2 G's - generosity and  gratitude.  Welcome your comments...and I hope you had a peaceful and reflective Labor Day.

USCCB Blog: What Can I Do? Three Steps to Reduce Income Dispar...: By Father James Martin, SJ Before I entered the Jesuits in 1988, I worked for six years at General Electric in their finance departme...

Monday, August 26, 2013

Back to S----l!



Back to s----l!

At the risk of angering my 15 year old daughter, who forbids the use of the word "school" all summer, I'm afraid it is that time again.  Even as an adult, I feel the irresistible need to buy a notebook every fall! Back-to-school bargains can be had and finding them is a lot easier than you think.

My strategy for paying the lowest possible prices begins mid-summer with a list of everything I think I'll need.  My son just graduated college and my daughter is entering her Junior year of high school and I teach a weekly class at my church.  Over the years our back-to-school needs have evolved.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

When Life Gives You Lemons...

First, I have to brag a little.  My dog Cookie was featured earlier this year in a great article in DNA Info, a
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site that covers local issues on Manhattan's East Side.  I am so embarrassed to say it took me this long to figure out how to get it into my blog!
I am a member of Community Board 8, an advisory board to the Manhattan Borough President.  I guess you could say Cookie is an honorary member!   Take a look at this article and then I'll get to the surprise...

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Monday, July 29, 2013

The Fountain of (almost free) Youth

The Fountain of (almost free) Youth    Book cover

In the interests of full disclosure, I must tell you that I am blessed w/ Italian parents who both look much younger than their years.  Both in their upper 70's, Nancy and George could pass for 50ish.  So if you want to dismiss my advice because I got lucky in the genetic lottery, I will not be offended, but...

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Free Concert


  

Free Stevie Wonder concert!

Those of you who know me well know that I adore Stevie Wonder.  When I was a little girl, my best friend Carolyn Gnerre had (has) a brother who was (is) 7 years older.  John was (is) very cool and listened almost exclusively to Motown. After school, we used to dance to the Motown 45's (ask your parents).  To this day, I can sing most Motown hits and I consider this the music of my youth. 
So I was thrilled when my boyfriend emailed me this morning to say he'd heard on the radio that Stevie Wonder is going to give a free concert in Central Park on September 28th!  What was required is membership in an organization called Global Citizen.

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Free Swimming

Free Swimming

It was 95 degrees today and there's no sign of it cooling down, so I went for a swim today at my local city pool.  It was delightful!!

Thought I would share with you the Parks Departments Free Pools in all 5 boroughs.  We had to wait on a line for about 20 minutes, but while we were waiting my 6 year old friend got a Free Lunch!  From June 27th to August 30th, kids under 18 can eat breakfast and lunch for free at locations in all five boroughs.  A PB&J sandwich, fruit, carrots & milk for free.  Good deal! 

Please share this post w/ your friends.  It's too hot not to!

Keep calm and carry on...Lori

Friday, July 5, 2013

FLASH!


Free Bike Helmets!

You can get a free bicycle helmet at several places around the city, courtesy of the Department of Transportation.  Both adults & kids are eligible.  Check this site for days, times & locations, which oddly is listed in reverse order.  

Free bicycle helmets will be given away on Saturday, July 13th @ Carl Schurz Park on the Upper East Side of Manhattan.from 11a - 2:30p.

I won't bore you with my "riding a bicycle on NYC streets is a death wish" speech, but if you are crazy enough to do it, you must wear a helmet, so please get a free one. Thank you!

Free Reads!


Free Reads!


Mo' Meta Blues   Call me boring, but my idea of heaven may be a long day at the beach with an absorbing book, a chaise lounge and a tall, cool drink. O.K. a handsome man for suntan services is a definite plus!  I used to lug all kinds of reading matter to Jones Beach - magazines, newspapers, books (paperback and hardcover).  Let's face it - it is next to impossible to read a newspaper at the beach - the wind blows the paper everywhere -  the magazines and books come home with sand embedded on every page.

   So I am a reluctant convert to reading books, newspapers and some magazines on a tablet.  My boyfriend gave me a KindleFire for Christmas and I must admit it's pretty great!  We watch HBO Go on it and I can check my email and search the web.  Maybe one day I'll blog from it, but let's not get ahead of ourselves.  This is supposed to be about free reads...

Friday, June 21, 2013

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Thrifty Gifts

Thrifty Gifts

I hope all the Dads had a great Father's Day. Children are the world's most precious gift and it is a lucky man who both has a child and shows his love.  This got me thinking about the whole gift-giving conundrum, which can be fraught w/ peril..

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Good Subs

Good Subs

In the wildly popular book 50 Shades of Grey (which I loved) the "sub club" was a group of  women with no self-esteem who got sexual gratification by being beaten up and abused.  Don't be alarmed...this column is not about submissives.  It's about seriously low priced substitutions for products you use every day!

Monday, June 3, 2013

Car Talk

Car Talk

I just spent 5 hours in the car w/ my parents going upstate to my son's college (Cornell) graduation and another 5 hours + on the way home.  Among other things, this got me thinking about how much I've learned from my Dad about cars and saving money.
Mom & Dad w/ their Grandkids & Grandog!



Monday, April 29, 2013

Free New York

Free New York!

This is a post I've been wanting to write for a long time.  Call me crazy, but I'm in love w/ New York City.  I think I always have been, but living here for more than 25 years and raising my two extraordinary children here, I've come to love this city even more.

I feel so very lucky to be able to live here, and I hope everyone has the chance to visit at least once.  It's one of those Bucket List things.  To that end, I'm going to do my best to help you enjoy the Big Apple without going broke.  There are a surprising number of free things to do in New York, but like everything, you need to do a little looking...

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Surprises @ the Dollar Store!

Suprises @ the Dollar Store!

Let's start by acknowledging that not all items are $1, and the stock is inconsistent, but like most strategies in the bargain hunting world, if you can wait for what you want and pounce when you see it cheap, you can do very well at the dollar store.

Everything from housewares (wine & drinking glasses) to school & office supplies (envelopes, notebooks, paper) to food (rice, olives, soda) can be picked up for rock bottom prices.  It's gotten so that I don't go into the Dollar Store unless I am willing to spend a little money because I know I will inevitably find something I find useful and wallet friendly!

A couple of weeks ago I bought reading glasses at the dollar store.  My eye doctor upped the prescription to 175.  I leave the glasses all over the house because you never know when you are going to need them.  I must have 8 or 10 pair strewn about.  I wasn't going to spend $100 to replace the weaker 125's.  I picked up what I needed for $2 a pair at the dollar store.

It won't surprise you to learn that I color my own hair.  I pick up throw away shower caps (10 in a package) for $2.  Steel wool - both with soap and without - useful both for cleaning and for stuffing holes that miniature critters seem to squeeze through.

Electrical items and tools are usually available, as are toiletries like cotton swabs (I cut the cotton tops off and used them as skewers for my most recent party!) and toothpaste.  A few months ago, they had an unbelievable selection of designer ties.  My son, the Jerry Garcia tie fan, was the happy beneficiary!

When it comes to food, I'll admit it's tricky.  Much of this merchandise is grey market and that includes the food.  Read labels!  However, I am Italian and have become famous for my fried olives.  Guess where the $1.59 bottles of green olives come from... 

Credit Card Reminder


We are approaching the end of the quarter (March 31) and many credit card companies change the categories eligible for extra - usually 5% - cash back.  Next month, just in time for Spring cleaning, Discover will be giving 5% back on purchases at home improvement stores.  Chase Freedom is giving 5% back @ Lowe's, movie theaters and restaurants.  Don't forget to put a small piece of masking tape on your card listing the categories earning extra cash back.  I'll remind you about this again at the end of June and again at the end of September!

Three Buck Chuck!

If you enjoy a nice glass of wine, run - don't walk - to your nearest Trader Joe's for the best $3 bottle you'll ever have.  I am a big fan of  Consumer Reports magazine.  Every November they do their Holiday Gifts issue and they include a list of tasty wines.  This year, CR recommended Trader Joe's Charles Shaw Merlot. Two weeks ago I finally got to Trader Joe's on 14th Street and I was dumbstruck by the wall of wines available - all for $2.99!  I tried the Pinot Grigio (white) and the Shiraz (Red) and both were excellent!  I cannot wait to go back and try Chardonnay, Malbec, Merlot, etc.

I would love to hear from you w/ reaction to the blog, or with tips for saving money, or both!

Next time, an almost free vacation in New York!

Keep calm & carry on...Lori Bores

Monday, March 11, 2013

Shop 'til U Drop - 4 Men, Women & Children


Shop 'til U Drop - 4 Men, Women & Children

Like any red-blooded American woman, I love to shop.  Actually, like any woman anywhere, we are gatherers. This can frequently come into conflict w/ my equally strong urge to save money...but it doesn't have to.  In this post, I will share some of my secrets to buying what you need without busting your budget.   

Note that since you guys are usually more focused on the bottom line, I hope you will enjoy this post, and if your female partner adopts some of these suggestions, please express appreciation in an appropriate way.
My ex-husband once told me I was a hero to his co-workers because of my thrift.  Too bad he couldn't demonstrate I was a hero to him!  But I digress...

Sunday, March 3, 2013

The Magic of Make-up

the magic of make-up

At the risk of alienating my male readers, I want to be upfront and say this post is about skincare and makeup.  Next week, I promise to attract you muscle men with a more testosterone friendly post, but this one is predominantly for the ladies.  Go enjoy the game and be sure to come back next week!

When I was a teenager, I worked for a dermatologist and learned a few facts about skin.  Putting these facts to work in the service of saving money, I can recommend a number of low cost skin care products that will make you beautiful without breaking the bank.

Friday, February 22, 2013

Hair & Makeup

Hair & Makeup

Doesn't everyone - OK especially women - feel good when they look good?  Growing up in the 60's, I used to fight this concept.  I wanted to be valued for my intelligence, not my puffy Italian hair.  Well, I've grown up and realized that looking gorgeous not only makes one feel good, it's power!  We are visual people.  The first impression is a lasting one and Aristotle said, "Personal beauty is a greater recommendation than any letter of reference."

Thursday, February 14, 2013

That's Entertainment!


That's Entertainment!


One of the many rules I live by is, "Take a Bite out of the Big Apple!"  There are so many entertainment and cultural opportunities in this wonderful city, that it is a crime not to enjoy them. It's why we put up w/ the less pleasant aspects of city life.  An open wallet is one way to be a culture vulture, but let me share a few strategies for soaking up movies, theater, museums & more without landing in the poor house...

Friday, February 8, 2013

Eating Well @ Home


Eating Well @ home

   As a percentage of money we spend, food at home has actually come way down, for reasons both good:  we're eating less red meat, and not-so-good: the growth of processed and genetically modified foods.  There has been a transformation, however, in getting food on the table at home: the way we shop.

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Eating Well

Eating Well - In & Out


My Dad says there are 2 kinds of people:  those who eat to live and those who live to eat!  Guess which one I am!   I told you I'm Italian, right?  

So food is much more than sustenance for me.  It's comfort, decadence, seduction, nutrition, joy...this is descending into an eating disorder, so let's get to the saving money part, shall we?

Eating at home, of course, will save you the most, but we all deserve a treat now and then.  It is possible to enjoy dining out - occasionally - and still send your kids to college.  

There are tons of online restaurant deals.  My favorites are on Groupon and Travelzoo.  I've purchased quite a number of delicious restaurant meals this way.  It doesn't even take planning w/ Groupon.  It has a "Now" deals section with discounts available right away.  Consult your computer or smart phone and go.  Everyone does this, and in my humble opinion we all need to get over feeling weird about it.  The restaurants do this to get your business, so if you're there, it's a win win!



 
Another of my favorites is "Restaurant Week" which in reality should be called restaurant Season or restaurant Month (not that I'm complaining)!  Twice a year in Manhattan, usually at the end of January/beginning of February (my birthday - yeah) and again at the end of July/beginning of August, some of the best restaurants in New York offer a limited prix fix 3 course menu.  This year it is $25 lunch and $38 dinner.  Frequently they offer wine specials, too.  

Now, these are not restaurants we budget watchers would normally visit, but whenever I can dine at Le Cirque, or Nobu or Bar Boulud for a $38 dinner tab I'm in.  I had lunch today at Lincoln and it was divine!

When the schedule is first announced, I visit Open Table and make 3 or 4 Friday night dinner reservations.  My boyfriend lives in New Jersey and comes into the city most weekends.  Restaurant week menus are usually not available on Saturday night (but it never hurts to ask).  Then I make a birthday dinner reservation for my daughter and/or son to take Mom out.  Then I call traditional working friends to see if they are available for dinner during the week.  And finally, I make a few lunch reservations and check in w/ my ladies who lunch.

Open Table makes it incredibly easy.  You can change or cancel a reservation and then revue the meal when you're done.  You earn points for this and earn a check good at any Open Table restaurant.  Last Friday evening, I took my daughter our to a wonderful new restaurant that was participating in Restaurant Week.  I used my $20 Open Table check when the bill came and without drinks two 3 course meals were less than $60!    

In previous years, Restaurant Week has been held in Brooklyn, Long Island and Westchester.  If you live there, you might want to put a "Restaurant Week" alert on your computer or smart phone so you won't
miss it.

Once you've dined, remember to review the restaurant to build up those reward points.  If you are also willing to write something for Zagat, you will get a free one of this fantastic restaurant guide, too.  

During non-Restaurant Weeks, look for prix fix and stick to the menu!  The beverages and coffee add up quickly.  I'm addicted to seltzer, but when I eat out, it's usually tap water, please.  I ask for a wedge of lemon and I'm a happy girl!  Lunch is always less expensive than dinner, and many restaurants have lunch specials to lure you in at this generally less crowded time of day.  So meet a friend for lunch!

At dinner, for savings and health reasons, you can frequently take half of the meal home and have it the next day for lunch.  Or there is nothing wrong with ordering 2 appetizers instead of a higher priced entree. 

Finally, don't forget about Restaurant Trucks.  You can get a very satisfying lunch at trucks serving yogurt, Jerk chicken, Halal delicacies, etc.  Find your favorite cuisine here:

Next time, we'll talk about how to save food dollars at home.  Bon appetite!

Keep calm & carry on...Lori

Friday, January 18, 2013

Good To The Last Drop

A few months ago, I almost threw out what I thought was an empty tube of Estee Lauder's Day Wear Plus, a fabulous product that subtly tints your skin while moisturizing. It has an SPF of 15 and was once an essential part of my daily under make-up routine.

The packaging is soft plastic so, just on a lark, I cut open the container and was stunned! The product still clinging to the inside of the 1.7 ounce (50ml) container was almost a third of the initial purchase.

I scraped the inside of the Day Wear tube w/ a thin wooden stick - the kind you use to stir your coffee - and filled an empty .5 ounce (15ml) jar. Now I have either a travel size container or several more days of this terrific cosmetic...and it's a good thing because Estee Lauder doesn't make it anymore!

Think of how many products you can get more of at no cost by simply employing this technique: lotions, creams, lip gloss, suncreens, virtually any product that comes in a soft plastic container. It helps to save small jars, like the ones that come w/ make-up promotional gifts.

Grab your scissors and coffee stick and get to work!

Next week:Pet Perks!

Keep calm & carry on...Lori


Thursday, January 10, 2013

To Your Credit

Frankly, the use of credit is an explosive subject.

Used wisely, it can expand a business, provide home ownership, lend you a car and send students to college.

Misused, it can ruin your financial future - and present.

Despite a very costly divorce, I have never been drowning in debt, but I have learned from watching Oprah obsessively that it is possible to reduce debt and get back on one's feet with a combination of strategies:

1) acknowledge the problem and seek help from a credit counseling service.
2) Call the credit card companies, tell them you are working to reduce your debt and ask if they can give you a lower interest rate.
3) list your debts and the interest you are paying on each one. Cut up the card w/ the highest interest rate and begin paying as much as you can to pay that one off.  Or transfer that debt to another card with the lowest interest rate and begin paying as much as you can on the next highest interest card.  Pay the minimums on the low interest cards and put as much as you can toward the highest rate card.
3) return whatever you can that was bought w/ a credit card.
4) sell whatever you can on EBay.
5) use cash - if you don't have it, you can't buy it.

Reducing your debt requires time and discipline, but you can do it.

Congratulations if you've kept your debt under control.  I have a number of credit cards but I have 2 rules to live by:
1) never pay for the use of a credit card, and
2) don't use a card unless you are getting something back.

My Target credit card gives me 5% off all purchases @ Target.  My American Express card gives me an annual check to spend at Costco. My Old Navy Visa gives me credit to use not only at Old Navy, but at the Gap, Banana Republic and my new favorite Athleta.

Most of my credit cards give a 1%, 3% or 5% credit on purchases, which I use as credit on my monthly statement.  Many of the cards changed categories or percentages quarterly and it can be difficult to remember who's offering what.

Masking tape solves the problem.  A small piece of tape on the corner of the card on which you've noted the categories w/ a thin Sharpie does the trick!   This works w/ gift cards, too.  Just note the amount left on the card.  I did this today w/ $3.40 left on a New York Times gift card.  I told the cashier the exact amount left on the card and paid the rest in cash.  No problem!

Next week, we'll talk about how to get up to a third more out of your every day products.

Keep calm & carry on...Lori   

Thursday, January 3, 2013

The New You

Welcome to the new you! 

If 2013 is the year you finally are going to get your finances on the right path, you've come to the right place.

I consider myself a student of thrift.  I'll happily share my tips, does and don'ts with fellow economists - and I invite you to join the party.  Money, of course, is serious business, but no matter how deep you are in the hole, it is a solvable problem...and I love solvable problems.  They're a challenge.

But first things first.  Before we begin, I'd like you to make a list of 10 things that you consider inexpensive - or better yet,  free - treats.  Why?  There will be times when sticking to a budget is going to feel like deprivation.  To stop the pity party in its tracks, you need to be able to reward yourself quickly.  My trainer friend calls it the work-reward-work-reward cycle.  We are all human and occasionally we need to give ourselves an atta-boy or atta-girl.

Everyone's list will be different, but here's mine:  

1)  a slice of really good pizza (for me it's Mimi's @ 84th & Lex - good enough for Paul McCartney...)  
2)  an Italian ice
3)  a spritz of perfume at the department store counter
4)  a vigorous power walk
5)  a 20 minute nap
6)  a really good cup of coffee - hot or iced depending on the weather - from your local deli (for me Ottomanelli's on 82nd & York)
7)  belting out a favorite song (extra points for using the hairbrush microphone)
8)  crazy dancing to a deeply funky song
9)  an eggroll
10)an attitude of gratitude - saying thank you to someone for something you already have

Looking at this list, I realize that nearly half of it involves food, but hey, I'm Italian, so deal with it!  The point is to think of treats that won't blow the budget but still feel like a pat on the back. 

Next week, we'll look at using and misusing credit...


Keep calm & carry on...Lori